John- here is the address for the NJ search service I found. http://www.njgrs.com/ I emailed them last wwekend and I haven't heard from them as of yet. Let me know how you make out . If any body else has used them or any other service , please post it ; I live on Maui , so a NJ based service would be very helpful , as 3 branches of my family are in NJ. Mahalo- Kevin