Dear Cathy in California, You may be looking in the wrong place. In nearby Mendham I find: Bap. 4 Aug 1861, Esther, dau of Stephen Wray. Bap. 1 Nov 1863, William Laird, son of Stephen Wray. Bap. 5 Nov 1865, Ellen Jane, dau of Mr. John Wray. Bap. 2 Nov 1867, John Williams, child of John & Elizabeth Wray. This is from "The First Presbyterian Congregation, Mendham, Morris County, New Jersey, History and Records 1738-1938," by Helen Martha Wright. I think it's available on microfilm through any Family History Library of the Mormon church, but I could be wrong. The iron industry was big in that area at that time, but I don't find Wrays in any of the other books I have. Best regards. Frank Young