Dear Pat, May God be with you & Mark at this time. List members of NJMdiddlesex Let EACH one of us keep Mark & Pat in our Prayers & thoughts. Maybe each of us can reach out with helping hands, doing what each of us can to help one another. I don't live near NJ, but I'll go to our Library and try to help y'all in any way I can. Let's all pull together, more so than before to HELP Mark & Pat. "Peace be with you" Dottie