Daer Katherine, This how I found him.. On Cyndis list and Sierra Home page is a link the something called social security death index. If he got benefits and died he may be there. I found 3 with the same name a took a stab at NJ since the others were in OHIO and MINN.. My sly devil used his middle name as his first and changed his b day from 1890 to1898. Furthermore he claimed to have never been married !! I'm sure his wife and 4 kids would not have agreed!! You have to think like a man to find them :) ( to all Men- I'm just kidding!!) Good Luck Renay