So your David L GRASSO is: DAVID GRASSO 31 Dec 1914 Jun 1987 08083 (Somerdale, Camden, NJ) 160-03-7774 Pennsylvania You don't know his parents. Well, this is only a wild shot, but in that same SSN site, it lists: DAVID GRASSO 10 Jun 1891 Feb 1974 15206 (Pittsburgh, Allegheny, PA) 200-42-8065 Pennsylvania I pick this for 2 reasons... 1. The age difference is about 22-3 years. This is a normal difference between ages of father and son. 2. David born 1914 had his SSN issued in Pennsylvania. Possibly because he lived in Pennsylvania at the time! No other PA David Grasso is listed. There are only 2 Charlotte GRASSOs listed. True, Charlotte might have outlived her husband and gotten a new surname. Or, she could have reverted back to her maiden name, or not gone by the name Charlotte. Both of the listed Charlottes are a good handful of years older than your David GRASSO. There are 4 Charlotte GRASSOs listed at http://www.switchboard.com/ but not one of them appears in New Jersey - one each in MI, AZ, NY, and ME. I only considered a living Charlotte in view of the age difference. Of course, she could be alive and be going under D. GRASSO or David GRASSO or even Dave GRASSO. A search engine reveals two David GRASSOs (perhaps sons?) living in NJ. David Grasso, (609) 729-7234, 110 W Crocus Rd, Wildwood, NJ 08260 David S Grasso, (201) 802-0172, 47 Nottingham Ct, Montvale, NJ 07645 I did some searching and found a PA/NJ researcher *named* GRASSO. Donna GRASSO email: [email protected] There is also an Alfred ZICCARDI who is looking for Pennsylvania GRASSOs. His address is: [email protected] If David L. GRASSO had a mother, maiden name LEWIS, almost surely the L middle initial stands for Lewis (especially as this sounds like a great male middle name). Looking for an Edna GRASSO in SSDI gives only two probable ones, and two with incorrect middle initials. The two probable ones are: Edna Grasso b Dec 16 1896 and d Jan 1984 at 07728 Freehold, Monmouth, New Jersey. Issued NJ. The other is illogical, being Texas. I checked the 1921 Philadelphia City Directory to see if the PA connection could be Philadelphia - a likely possibility. The answer is - quite possibly no. No David GRASSO is listed in that PCD. My hunch is either Luzerne County or Allegheny County PA, or Monmouth Co NJ for list queries. I am afraid that is about all the attempted help I can give... Thanks for your nice commendations! Vince Summers