Dear group, There is some misunderstanding about the e-mails you are receiving. When someone subscribes to the list, that person receives a copy of all the e-mails sent to the list. If the e-mail pertains, save it or answer it. If it does not pertain to you, delete it. There is no way to have anyone receive only those e-mails that pertain to your ancestry. Secondly, when you subscribe to the list, the e-mails will go to the e-mail address used to subscribe. If you want the e-mails to go to a different address, then send the subscribe message from that e-mail account. Thanks, Vicki list owner