In a message dated 12/5/2007 3:10:35 P.M. Pacific Standard Time, mikejboyd@bigpond.com writes: I assume that you have joined the San Bernadino County Net Group and any other Net group like for Schools in the area that your husband was born. Perhaps some of the school friends of his mother may be your key contacts. Mike, actually I did check for school records but found nothing. I didn't try joining any net groups, so that is a brilliant idea and I think I will try that next. Love, Kathy **************************************Check out AOL's list of 2007's hottest products. (http://money.aol.com/special/hot-products-2007?NCID=aoltop00030000000001)