Hi Linda, Once again I advise you to look at the many Meyers on emslanders.com. Also, I have this connection in St. Louis. An Elizabeth Meyer, daughter of Bernard Meyer and Elizabeth Frohe, was m. to William Westendorf on Jan 21, 1873, Sts. Peter & Paul parish in St. Louis. He was b. Sep 24, 1844 so she would probably have been about that age as well. Jo Westendorf Banks res: Collins, Fitzpatrick, Lamping, Rabeling, Sand, Voelker, Voss, Westendorf in St. Louis