I think I will let Kathy Lisai stew in her own juices (smile) and, I didnt insult her friend (who is Cindy of the new CTRiver Valley List. Cindy was picking up all my posts to another list and using them on hers. Kathy gave the credit to Cindy for all my Fort 4 posts to the other List. I merely said they were not Cindy's work but my work. Seems Cindy stopped giving me credit after I said to her that there was no need to credit me for all the websites I posted. NOT to delete my name on my own work. Period. Well, at any rate....here is the invitation to take over the GenMass List. (bad girls go everywhere) ha ha Subj: Re: From moderator: HTML Date: 99-06-30 15:18:19 EDT From: hbladm1@uconnvm.uconn.edu (George Waller) GenMassachusetts- L@rootsweb.com To: Farns10th@aol.com This leads me to suggest something I have considered for several months. You are a very, very productive member of the list and well respected. Would you consider taking over the moderatorship? I have thought of suggesting this to you before, but kept putting it off. What do you think? I may not be able to reply until tomorrow since family and work commitments are pressing today. George ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ bellemetz@mediaone.net Kathy Lisai wrote: > Hi Linda, > Thank you for your reply, although I had kind of forgotten about that > posting already. > Yes, I know, and I believe in keeping quiet, and deleting, seriously, I am > not a troublemaker. It was just that Janice had recently been very, very > rude to a friend of mine on another list, not to mention some emails she > sent me awhile back when I disagreed with her about something, and to tell > you the truth, when all those messages started up thanking her right and > left, I sort of snapped. > This was the third or fourth time that Janice has been in the midst of a > brouhaha on one list or another, only to kick off a bunch of emails saying > how wonderful she is. I know that she was kicked off of one list, and not > allowed to sub to two others, because of her combatative attitude. As I > said to a few other people who emailed me, just because she posts alot of > stuff does not give her the right to attack anybody who disagrees with her. > And believe it or not, there are alot of people out in mailing list land > who do not care for her, it's not just me. The private emails she sent me > when I just asked her to please cease and desist an attack on a fellow > listmember included ethnic slurs, insults to my family, and were basically > way over the top. All I asked of her was to please stop adding to the > flame war, and I got told to go crawl back in the hole I crawled out of. > Plus some things I wouldn't repeat. Seriously, it was bad. Now when I see > her postings, I usually keep my peace, but something sort of snapped, I > guess I lost my irish temper. I'm not that sorry though, at least the > subject of Janice came to a halt, until I got your message. Everybody is > entitled to their opinion though; you, Jance, and certainly I am too. I > just think that she should be thanked privately, as not everybody agrees > with you, and I will be glad not to post any opposing views, as long as her > thank yous are done off list. > Peace!! > Kathy > > At 09:47 AM 7/9/99 -0400, you wrote: > >Those who do not like certain donors of genealogical information only have to > >use their DELETE key. You need not be vocal, just DELETE it and get on with > >it. > >Most of us (99.99%) enjoy most everything on the genealogical webs. Mose > of us > >are Americans where freedom of choice is using your DELETE key and be silent. > >Thanks. Linda > > > > > > ----------------------- Headers -------------------------------- Return-Path: <bellemetz@mediaone.net> Received: from aol.com (rly-yc02.mail.aol.com [172.18.149.34]) by air-yc05.mail.aol.com (v59.55) with SMTP; Fri, 09 Jul 1999 17:02:40 -0400 Received: from chmls06.mediaone.net (chmls06.mediaone.net [24.128.1.71]) by rly-yc02.mx.aol.com (vx) with SMTP; Fri, 09 Jul 1999 17:02:23 -0400 Received: from mediaone.net (bellemetz.ne.mediaone.net [24.218.85.252]) by chmls06.mediaone.net (8.8.7/8.8.7) with ESMTP id RAA07558 for <Farns10th@aol.com>; Fri, 9 Jul 1999 17:02:22 -0400 (EDT) Message-ID: <378611C6.F6FBB44F@mediaone.net> Date: Fri, 09 Jul 1999 11:14:15 -0400 From: Linda Bellemare <bellemetz@mediaone.net> X-Mailer: Mozilla 4.06 [en]C-MOEATL (Win95; U) MIME-Version: 1.0 To: Farns10th@aol.com Subject: Re: Farnsworth References: <3.0.5.32.19990629201402.008a6510@sover.net> <377985C1.BAC6C8F5@alaska.net> <3.0.5.32.19990709160618.008a8d90@sover.net> Content-Type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit