Dear Janet, I normally don't jump in on these things but I do so agree with all the positive things the others have said about you not unsubscribing and not changing your name. My goodness. My mother went to school with a two sisters named "Ima Hogg and Ura Hogg". And I could go on and on as could we all. Hang in there and be proud of your heritage and the wonderful name you were given by someone very special in your life. If we could all choose our own name wouldn't that be a mess? Just remember the old saying, "sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me". Good luck with your research and keep it up! Jean in Texas