Nancy Pfannenstiel wrote: "On another note, I have a "cousin " thinking I ought to send them copies of some estate papers I got from NC archives. My feeling is I can run myself ragged making copies for people when they can get it for themselves from the NC Archives just like I did. I don't mind copying Bible records, or photos, etc that is not in the public domain... but I guess I just resent people asking me to give them what they could just as easily get for themselves. am I out of line here?" No, Nancy, you are not out of line. Especially if the other person has equal access. But if you are going - and have told others, they may have considered this information as something you are willing to share. I'm often the one who must ask for help and lookups when I get stuck and can't find what I need on the net or by regular mail. That's because I live in Norway and my family and ancestors have been in the U.S. since the 1600's. But I try to even it out by supplying copies of documents and other information I already have with those who need it. Grandpa created beautiful works of art - inlaid tables and chests. And he never sold anything. He gave it away. He just asked that the receiver "paid" for the article by performing an act of kindness to someone they meet along their way. If you feel it's too much, or it is an imposition, don't advertise your plans or please just tell them how you feel. I would feel terrible if I later learned that someone felt "used" or "imposed upon" in order to meet my request, but hadn't told me. Better at they tell me they are too busy or don't have the time. I think most people feel the same. One last thought: When I was young - and had a lot of questions - I never got an answer before I tried to find the answer by myself! Eventually, I found out that looking for information was much more rewarding than having it "served up". Maybe a good motto for all of us would be "Look first - ask later". Sharon ______________________________