Is this the Withrow line that you are following? Do you have parents for the Captain James Withrow in Rutherford County, NC during this time? James Withrow in Rutherford Co,. NC was given guidance to 2 boys. James and John. Their uncle or father's name was Samuel. So I am assuming James had a brother Samuel. This is James Withrow who married Margaret Ethrington. I do think he founght in the Rev. War.