Hey ladies, back off. I just went through this on another list. jerrym ----- Original Message ----- From: <rlmlfm@aol.com> To: <ncorange@rootsweb.com> Sent: Thursday, February 21, 2008 8:54 AM Subject: Re: [NCORANGE] Andrew Collins > > Dear Cecilia: > > I am sorry?that you felt the need to attack me personally when I was only > offering my help?with your genealogical research and a few alternative > suggestions that might be worth investigating. > > I disagree with?what you said, "Most males of the day if they knew they > were about to die and could write, wrote a will, regardless of whether the > wife was alive or not.? I have MANY > will records where the wife was still alive.", in fact, only a small > percentage of men left a will no matter whether they were old or young. > > By the way, I am very thorough in all areas of my genealogy research and > have been asked by a professional genealogist to submit some of my work to > be published in a genealogical journal. > > > Good luck with you research. > > Regards, > > Linda > > > > > -----Original Message----- > From: Celia Becker <celia.lfsbecker@sbcglobal.net> > To: ncorange@rootsweb.com > Sent: Thu, 21 Feb 2008 1:51 am > Subject: Re: [NCORANGE] Andrew Collins > > > > > By 1820, the sons were all out of the house--along with their half > brothers. > I doubt if Isabella would have wanted her husband's misdeeds around. I > suspect from various records in which Bradley Collins was regularly > witnessing marriages and other events for his second wife's family, that > Bradley and his half brothers were living with the Rays in 1820 but by > 1825 > they were all in Kentucky. > > Most males of the day if they knew they were about to die and could write, > wrote a will, regardless of whether the wife was alive or not. I have > MANY > will records where the wife was still alive. > > Prior to recent years, the estate did NOT automatically pass to the wife > when a man died. The law usually required an intestate estate to be > divided > between wife and children with most of the real estate and personal > property > sold and the wife retaining a life time "use" of the house--if she got > that > much. Prior to the Revolution, without a will it all went to the oldest > son. With a will, the oldest son still got the largest share, unless his > father made a substantial prior to death settlement, such as at marriage. > In fact as recently as 30 years ago, a woman could not get credit in her > own > name, and only about 70-80 years ago, if a woman worked her pay was handed > to her husband, or her oldest son, or other close male relative. Women > were > not allowed to own property in their own name if she was married or had a > father still living or a son. > > Heck we didn't even get the vote until the end of World War I!--in the > 20th > century! > > I take it you're not real familiar with the general social and legal > history > of the U.S.. Do you get the history channel or public television where > you > are? I realize there are still areas of the U.S. that get neither and > plenty of people even in areas that do get these channels through cable > television or satellite television that for one reason or another don't > use > either and thus don't get them. It can be expensive for the one and God > help you if you live in a canyon, deep valley or woods for the other. I > live in a city, but have very tall eucalyptus trees in the direction I'd > need to tilt a dish so I ended up with cable if I wanted something other > than the usual pretty stupid "major network" television. I still spend > more > time reading, either books or stuff on-line rather than watching even > educational television--when I have significant free time. > > Anyhow,my late mother, Wilma Maie Wallace-Fabos, organized and led the > first > strike in the nation for "comparable worth" in the city of San Jose > against > the City of San Jose in July, 1981. Prior to 1976, discrimination of all > kinds was legal against women and you couldn't get credit in your own > name. > I still remember the first time I had my own checking account (savings you > could have) and my own credit card. Her mother was one of of the first > certified building maintenance "engineers" and then could use her > certificate or hold that kind of job because (a) she "deceived" the > college > by mail program by using initials when she studied along side her father > and > then secretly took the test under her name with initials. Her parents > both > threatened to disown her if she ever tried to use the certificate. Her > father eventually did for other reasons, mostly brought on by Jessie's > other > behaviors, which alienated nearly everyone in her life at the time. When > she first did work, the checks were made out by her employer to her > husband. > Even after her divorce, for a time they were made out to her oldest son, > and > then her second husband--and this was in Los Angeles in the 1930's! > > Sincerely, > > Cecilia > > > > > > > > -----Original Message----- > From: ncorange-bounces@rootsweb.com [mailto:ncorange-bounces@rootsweb.com] > On Behalf Of rlmlfm@aol.com > Sent: Wednesday, February 20, 2008 4:35 PM > To: NCORANGE@rootsweb.com > Subject: Re: [NCORANGE] Andrew Collins > > > > Cecilia, > > It seems unlikely?that your ancestor?Andrew Collins had a will since his > wife Isabella Collins was still living in Orange County, NC after Andrew's > death about 1820 as you stated.? If he did have a will, I suspect that it > would be found?in Orange County.? You might try seeing if you can find his > estate records,?the administrator's bond (who the administrator of his > estate was), the inventory of his estate, and the sale and/or settlement > of > his estate documents.? > > Isabella Collins is listed on the 1820 Orange County census with only > herself, age 45 & up, and two white females, one age 10-16 years, and one > age 16-26 years.? There were no males of any race and there were no slaves > listed as living with Isabella. > > Linda > > > ________________________________________________________________________ > More new features than ever. Check out the new AOL Mail ! - > http://webmail.aol.com > > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to > NCORANGE-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the > quotes > in the subject and the body of the message No virus found in this incoming > message. 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