You get digest mode and she probably gets regular mode. So many posts have to be made before the Digest kicks in and sometimes that takes a couple of days - months in the case of the Hardy list. Martha >Resent-Date: Mon, 3 May 2004 11:18:51 -0600 >X-Original-Sender: [email protected] Mon May 3 11:18:51 2004 >From: [email protected] >Date: Mon, 3 May 2004 13:18:35 EDT >Old-To: [email protected] >X-Mailer: 6.0 sub 10578 >X-Scanned-By: MIMEDefang 2.38 >To: [email protected] >Resent-From: [email protected] >X-Mailing-List: <[email protected]> archive/latest/3115 >X-Loop: [email protected] >Resent-Sender: [email protected] >Subject: [NCLENOIR] Re: NCLENOIR-D Digest V04 #81 >X-Junkmail-Status: score=6/65, host=mr05.mrf.mail.rcn.net > >Hi folks, > >Can anyone tell me why this mail is so slow to arrive in California? My >distant cousin in NC always likes to share what's being posted here and >she gets it >a day earlier. > >Thanks in advance for any explanation. > >from Helen who thinks this came on a slow boat to China, LOL!