Dear Jean, Thanks so much for sharing your memories and congratulation on the success in your research. I understand how you feel about wanting to share your information with your grandmother. One of the senior researchers in our family passed away last year. About 8 months ago, I was online looking through someone's home web page and stumbled into information about the matriarch of our Garner line. It had been a 30 year brick wall. It was a total accident, I wasn't even pursuing that info at the time and I almost passed it by. I could not believe my eyes, I sat stunned at first, then I started yelling and literally jumping up and down. Of course everyone in the house came running to see what disaster had taken place. When I explained to them why I was carrying on so, they replied "Oh that's nice" and left without ever understanding what major event in my life had just taken place. At that moment I would have giving almost anything (maybe even my first born who thought "oh that's nice") to talk to that old lady researcher who had been my mentor, and had taken me under her wing, who kept me on the straight and narrow and kept me from letting my active imagination take me to far off track. I ending up emailing two cousins of another unrelated line because I knew they would understand my excitement and wouldn't tell me "Oh how nice" Donna