Hi Louise, I certainly understand how frustrating this can all be. I think the best information I can give you is to post, post, post on every genealogy bulletin board you can find. I searched until I began to think, I must be the dumbest person in the world, because I couldn't even find myself out there. It wasn't until I started posting my info, that I began to get results. Try it and good luck. You didn't tell me your g grand mother name, was it HAWK? I'll be glad to share any information that will help you. Sincerely, Kay