Ideana, My wife and I are planning something similar. I want to be cremated and she doesn't. We have purchased two plots and will have two stones, one for each of us. My stone will have the added comment "Cremains scattered at xyz". The family knows and now anyone else who sees the stones will know what took place. Just another idea...... Rob Rob and Aileen (Meroney) SCHULZE, Prescott, AZ ([email protected]) Researching: BRADLEY, SCHULZE, HENEY, KASTEN, SCHREINER, OLEY/OHLEY, FAUCETT, WALKER, TEAL, ALLEY, MERONEY, GENTRY, PILGRIM, WAINSCOTT, DOYLE, WILSON, GOODE, NOLAN, LUTZ, MILLER, FYKE.