Obits can be requested from www.McPL.Lib.Mo.Us That is the library at Independence, MO, Genealogy Dept. I see by rootsweb.com/~mohenry/cemetery records, Englewood Cemetery Records list Ruth Ann Sanders d. Oct 5, 1930 buried Blk 402-Lot 1070 G09 That would be beside Joel Sanders but it does not list his date of death. It would help to know that. He was born NY Possibly her obit would tell date of death of her husband. Doris Barnhart