1860 census Dallas Twp. Harrison co., Mo. Bainter Jacob 55 M. Pa Rhoda 47 F Va John 21 M Ohio Robert 19 M Ind Rhoda 13 F Ind. From family records show substantial evidence that Jacob Bender was also known as Jacob Bainter from researchers: Kevin Bender, 5842 Richmond Ave., Tulsa,OK 74135-4256 & Leonard Leroy Bainter, 1525 Bennett Rd, Mt. Vernon, WA 98273-9738 descendants of Jacob Bainter Bender. ---------- > From: Nina Jackson <Beljac@AOL.com> > To: MOHARRIS-L@rootsweb.com > Subject: [MOHARRIS-L] QExpress for Harrison County, MO ( BENDER ) > Date: Wednesday, October 18, 2000 7:04 PM > > > Surnames: BENDER > Submitter: Nina Jackson (Beljac@AOL.com) > Date: 18 Oct 2000 > > Rhoda BENDER,born in VA, lived and died in Harrison Co., MO. She is buried in Foster Cemetery. Inscription on her tombstone 'Rhoda, wife of Jacob BENDER, died Dec 31, 1881 aged 62y, 10m 15d'. However, 1880 White Oak Twp census indicates her age at that time as 72 years old which I believe is closer to the truth. Other information I have makes me believe she was born about 1808. Can there be a mistake on the tombstone inscription? Thanks for any help.