Your have said it very well, Lanita. Our best and most effective Genealogy socities in America are based mutual cooperation where every request for help is accompanied by an offer of some kind of assistence in return. Charles M. Hall, Founding President of Palatines to America,- & FEEFHS [Federation of East European Family History Societies) Also former Editor of Daviess Diggins. ----- Original Message ----- From: Lanita Sconce Smith<mailto:ozarkn@grm.net> To: modavies@rootsweb.com<mailto:modavies@rootsweb.com> Sent: Thursday, September 18, 2008 4:12 PM Subject: [MODAVIES] genealogical question Ok, I've had that correspondence again, where someone is wanting 'all I have on" and has not shared anything in return. The family we are talking about, is one that I have a TON of info plus pictures, pictures, and more pictures of tombstones... I've already sent alot on the line with info in several emails, and several pictures, but she's wanting more.... She actually said "send me all you have".... I'm tired of giving her "everything" I have taken years of research to acquire, and so far, I've not gotten anything in return.. When and HOW do I say ENOUGH! .... I gladly EXCHANGE info, but I'm not getting anything in return.... Feeling very selfish, and yet, I've already sent her so much! So, how do I say it? Lanita ------------------------------- To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to MODAVIES-request@rootsweb.com<mailto:MODAVIES-request@rootsweb.com> with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message