I got neighbor's 3 doors up for 30 years and I don't know their names, as I'm STILL an outsider. When I had my security clearance reviewed the inspector ask them what they knew of me and they could not tell him anything except I was "a cripple who drove a blue truck, had a nasty dog and had too many damn parties". I have a card party every other month at my house. We finish up around 1030-1100. The people across the street who I am friendly with reported I traveled outside the country many times --- I went to California and Arizona all the times. The next-door neighbors reported that I had traveled to Denmark but could not remember I was stationed in England for 3 months although I sent them a box of candy form London for Christmas. Sometimes it's good to be an outsider. I've lived in small towns where they knew if you did laundry that day and if your whites were as white as theirs.