Even tho I have my regrets on not asking some of my family members about things, I did realize a little over a year ago, that there were some things on my mothers side of the family, that I wanted to know. So I had many enjoyable visits with my 80 something Aunt. She told me many things, my mother either did not want to discuss or did not remember. And I did pick her brain. But I wasn't finished yet, when she had a fall and died on my birthday last year. We were very close. But she gave me a lot of stories and even things about me, when I was a child. There were still things that I wanted to know, things I wanted to ask her yet, but I am thankful for the time we had. Pat