Guys & Gals It seems to me that this war used to the called "The War Between The States". It seems more appropriate to me. There were both good and bad issues on both the north and the south sides. Neither were being particularly aggressive or rebellious; but, they had issues between them for which a compromise could not be negotiated to resolve the issues. Therefore, not seeing other options, they chose to fight for their beliefs. Both sides came to regret the whole war and learned and grew in maturity from the experience. It has been nearly 145 years since the war began. I think it is time for everyone to put their ill-feelings to rest least we start a feud that might grow to the proportions of the Irish or the Far East. Be proud of your ancestors which ever side they fought on or even if they didn't fight at all. They had the courage to fight for their beliefs just as our revolutionary forefathers did and in the process taught us many valuable lessons. Let us take what we learned and make the country a better place for ourselves and our children and it is my opinion that this is not done by "carefully teaching our children to hate the people we hate". Also for those who wish to continue this warring dissertation, may I add my vote to take it off this list and just email each other directly. I've gotten to the point where I am both bored and offended by the constant arguing. Mary