We have a very good topic going on now, but it is causing a lot of postings. These we can handle, but, please, we need to stop our side remarks regarding our feelings about the subject, both in support of the subject and against the subject. Just remember, the care of cemeteries is one of the reasons for this list. We also need to stop responding to those who send negative remarks to the list about what is going on. It is just multiplying the problem. We have lost almost 100 members in the last few days, and many of these did not leave because of the topic at hand, they left because they wanted to get out of Dodge before the flame war began that they felt was going to happen. If you feel you just must had your two cents to a remark, please send to directly to the person you are supporting or disagreeing with. I love this list and I love your enthusiasm , we still have over 430 members and we are a very healthy list. Remember to check the Subject line before you post a message - that one item helps more than any of you know. Thank you for your support of me and of of my way of running your list. Kathleen Burnett List Mom