Since she may come under a "Living" time frame, have you done a search for a Living Hawkins with the respective surnames of her spouses as "Living" as well. Might come up. Check other gen sites if they allow a search as such on their web sites? Familysearch.org, the LDS web site might shed more light too. Pat Otherwise pair your search on rootsweb.com with just the surnames, or have you already tried that tac? Just a thought search the message boards too for possible related Findley/Findlay MILLS related. Not an all boards search, but individual ones. Otherwise, you get too many to sort through.