Oh Carol, I love it !! Years ago when my children were dating, they would drag home their dates, introduce them to us, and the next day would ask us, "how we like their date"?? Well we usually said they seemed nice, but most of the time I was thinking WHAT DID THEY SEE IN THESE STRANGE CREATURES ???? I talked this over with my husband, he looked at me kind of funny, I said that which ever one us went to happy hunting ground first, the one left behind should do some dating right after the funeral, I was thinking of hiring a very young, Goth style guy, bring him to a holiday gathering and introduce him as my new boy friend, and tell them we are going to start our own church, for the children of this world that need help. Also I would have him treat me badly in front of them, and when the next time we met, ask them what they thought of my new boy friend, soon to be my new husband ???? It was pay back time LOL I have gotten older since this first crossed my mind, so maybe I am not up to pretending !!! But at the time it seemed like pay back, I can almost see the looks on their faces. I don't know if they would have forgiven me, so it's a good thing we are both alive and still kicking !!! Sully