I went with my granddaughter and her mother to look at wedding gowns this afternoon. She won't be getting married until 2012 but she is all excited. Each gown was prettier than the other. Her godfather, her dad's brother, is paying for it. I used to watch her when she was a baby up to when she started first grade and stayed with her after school. The time goes so fast, so grandma's and grandpap's spend a lot of time with your grandchildren because they grow up so fast. She was named after me. B. graduated from nursing school a few months ago. Five years and lots of money. She overcame a father who spent 6 months in jail for yelling in front of a bingo crowd that he was going to kill his girlfriend (my daughter and he were divorced at the time). Maxed out credit cards and got a woman pregnant and got deeply in debt. The second one didn't love or care about his kids and he showed no emotion towards B. My daughter got deep in debt with this one to. He threatened her with telling us about her debts, if she would not take any part of his pension. SOB. He was adopted and I don't why his parents did this because they showed no love towards him. Her dad remarried a woman who was 27 years younger then him. They have a daughter who is 4 now and is the cutest little thing. He has a daughter who is 4 and one that is almost 24. Even though he hurt my daughter and B., he is still now part of our family and is welcomed into our home. My daughter ask him to help her move in with us and he did. His wife and daughter have been to our house and they are welcomed to. Sorry, about going on and on about this, getting it out of me helped me some. Barb tipperboo12@msn.com