I found a KY Find A Grave for Mary Charlton Spalding b 11 Oct 1792, MD d. 4 Aug 1850, Marion Co., KY Could Charlton be the maiden name for Mrs Mary Adams that married Richard Spalding? If so which Adams was she married to? Dave ----- Original Message ----- From: "Dave Lee" <davidhilary@suddenlink.net> To: <mdstmary@rootsweb.com> Sent: Wednesday, February 13, 2013 2:21 PM Subject: Re: [MDSTMARY] Spalding source? > All these people with the same name. In a previous message I identfied > Alethaire Alethea Abell as b. 22 April 1764 ( MD Births & Christenings > 1662-1911). > d/o Rich"d Spalding & Ann. > WRONG she would have been too young to marry in 1770. > Alethaire A. Abell b. 1753 SMC d. 1 Dec 1821, Washington Co., KY d/o > Samuel > Abell & Eleanor O'Bryan appears to be one that m. Benedict Joseph Spalding > 1746-1815 > I have serious problems on which child married Who. > Richard Spalding married in Washington Co., KY > Nancy Taylor 17 Nov 1798 > Henrietta Hamilton 28 Jul 1801 > Tabitha Edwards 8 Jul 1805 > Henny Thompson 17 Jan 1817 > Mary Montgomery 15 Nov 1825 > Mrs Mary Adams 15 Feb 1827 ( this is a married name, what was her maiden > name?) > These 6 marriages are on FTM CD # 229 Marriage Index. > Joseph Spalding ha 4 marriages > Benedict Jr. had 3 > > Some separation is easy but others I am not sure. > If Eliza Beavins had a brother in-law Lewis Ignatius Spalding then she did > not marry the Benedict in the Washington Co. Will of Benedict 1746-1815 as > this Ignatius was Ignatius Aloysius. > > I do want to thank you for the dates from the bible as they can be > varified > against census records. > Dave > ----- Original Message ----- > From: "K Mills" <justwannabe_kat@yahoo.com> > To: <mdstmary@rootsweb.com> > Sent: Wednesday, February 13, 2013 12:26 PM > Subject: Re: [MDSTMARY] Spalding source? > > > It may be helpful I I post this sources, Marcia. > Here's a transcription that existed possibly as early as the 1930's. My > grandfather corresponded with this woman. I do not know who inherited the > bible and never saw it myself, but believe it existed. I can not verify > the > accuracy of this transcript either. I haven't had time to check it all, > but > have verified some of it with early Holy Name of Mary Baptismal records. > My > family lines are Abell, Hamilton and Mills. > "Copy of the Richard Spalding Bible in the possession of Mrs. Henrietta > Spalding Boldick, Lebanon, KY > _*Births*_ > Richard Spalding , b Apr 6, 1777 > Henrietta Hamilton, b May 31 1781, m July 12, 1801 > John Spalding, b June 7, 1802 - died Sept 24 1803 > Anastasia Spalding Born July 22, 1803 > Julia Ann Spalding, b March 2, 1805 > Leonard Spalding , Oct 24, 1806 (Leonard A. Spalding) > Richard M. Spalding, b June 7, 1808 died Sept 24 1883 > Martin John Spalding b May 23 1810 died Sept 7 1872 (Bishop) > Benedict J. Spalding, born June 21 1812 died Aug 4, 1868 (priest) > Clement C. Spalding, born May 7, 1814 died July 26, 1857 (?) > > > Children of Richard and Henrietta Thompson (2nd wife) > Caroline Spalding, b Oct 25 1817 died Sept... 1849 > William Spalding, born Oct 19, 1818 died March 6. 1881 (William T. > Spalding) > Ann Hamilton Spalding, b May 15 1820 > Henry Hudson Spalding born Oct 15, 1823 > Mary Jane Spalding, born July 6 1825 died Oct 3 1847 > Joseph Spalding b April 15, 1822, died March 14, 1884 > > > Children of Richard and Mary Adams (3rd wife) > Susannah M. Spalding, born May 22, 1831 > Thomes E. Spalding, born Sept 23, 1834 died Oct 11, 1856 > > > "Names and dates of my grandfather's children as copied from my fathers > family Bible" > Ann Spalding, born Feb 8 1771 (Hamilton) > Mary Spalding, Born Feb 1, 1773 (Wathen) > Elenor Spalding, born May 25, 1775 (Riney) > Richard Spalding born Apr 16 1777 > Thomas Spalding, born Dec 21 1778 > Elizabeth Spalding, born July 28 1781 (Wathen) > Benedict Spalding, born June 10, 1783 > Joseph Spalding born Jun 10, 1786 > Catherine Spalding born Apr 15 1788 (Forrest) > Ignatius A. Spalding, Born may 5, 1790 > Alethia Spalding, born Feb 1, 1792 (Simms) > William Spalding, born May 5, 1795 > Page 2 > Richard Marcus Spalding, son of Richard and Henrietta Hamilton, born Jun > 7, > 1806 > Mary Jane Lancaster, daughter of John Lancaster and Catherine Miles, was > born May 25 1816 > John Lancaster, born 27 Jan 1766, died Apr 24, 1838 > Catherine, dau of Philip Miles was born Mar 29, 1773 died June 29 184 > > > John Lancaster Spalding, son of Rich. and Mary Jane ordained Dec 19, 1863 > > > Ann Catherine Spalding and Ralph L. Spalding married Oct 27, 1868 > Leonard Hamilton Spalding and Mary Heefernan married May 24 1870 > > > Benedict Joseph Spalding ordained Oct 28 1875 > > > Henrietta Spalding (nun) Oct 3-1872 > > > Mary Ellen Spalding and Francis Tully Slevin married Nov. 10 1875 > Ann Edward Spalding and Nathen Henry Putnam married Nov 10 1875 > > > John Lancaster Spaldign born June 2, 1840 > Richard Clement Spalding born Spet 26, 1841 > Ann Catherine Spalding, born May 21, 1843 > Leanord Spalding born Jan 10 1845 > Henrietta Spalding, born Jan 10 1847 > mary Ellen Spalding, born Aug 13, 1849 > Benedict Joseph Spalding, born Oct. 18, 1851 > Anna Edward Spalding, born Nov 2, 1853 > Martin John Mary Spalding , born Nov 22, 1856 > _*Deaths*_Nannie Edward Spalding d Dec 19 1922 > Richard Clement Spalding d June 15 1861 > Martin John Mary Spalding, d Aug 1869 > Richard Marcus Spalding, d Sept 24, 1869 > Benedict Joseph Spalding d Nov 28, 1887 > Mary Jane Spalding d Aug 11, 1895 > Ralph L. Spalding d Jan 4 1880 > Rt Rev. John Lancaster Spalding d Aug 22, 1917 > Ann Catherine Spalding, d Jan 28 1918 > > > _*Children of Ralph and Ann Catherine Spalding*_ > Mary Bell Spalding b Feb 24 1870 > Richard M. Spalding b June 23 1872 > Henrietta Spalding b Mar 15. 1874 m George D. Boldrick Oct 27 1914 > Samuel J. Spalding b Mary 24 1877 married Treasa Talbott May 12 1911 > Catherine Spalding b Apr 6, 1880 married C. W Hagan April 28, 1911 > Catherine died Mary 17, 1921 > Richard M. Spalding b May 23 1872, m Nettie Lyddane Sept 28 1898 > Nettie Lyddane dau of John and Bettie Smith Lyddane, was b Dec 16, 1873 > _*Children:*_ > John Lyddane Spalding b Dec 20 1899 > Ralph Lancaster Spalding b Oct 1, 1901 > Richard Martin Spalding, b Dec 14, 18902 > Nettie Lyddane Spalding, died Nov. 14 1926 > Richard M. Spalding died Oct 13 1927 > < , |/ > < ' /| Kat Mills > > --- On Tue, 2/12/13, Marcia <mmattingly@satx.rr.com> wrote: > > From: Marcia <mmattingly@satx.rr.com> > Subject: Re: [MDSTMARY] MDSTMARY Digest, Vol 8, Issue 58 > To: mdstmary@rootsweb.com > Date: Tuesday, February 12, 2013, 11:20 AM > > List, > I need to weigh in on this one. Again, let's correct these names and > dates, > if needed. The Spaldings and Mattinglys are well-documented lines, their > descendants settling in Nelson/Washington/Marion counties of KY, pioneers > of > the Maryland League. > > Benedict Joseph SPALDING JR (1746-1815 KY) married Alethaire (Alethea) > ABELL > (1753-1821 KY), the daughter of Samuel Abell (c1719-1777 MD) and Eleanor > Bryan (c1720-aft 1777 MD, presumed daughter of William Bryan). This couple > has been used numerous times for DAR/SAR applications. They are my 4th > great-grandparents. > > Benedict Joseph SPALDING SR (c1716-1768 MD) married Elizabeth MATTINGLY > bef. > 1746. She was daughter of Thomas Mattingly III (c1690-1774 MD) and Ruth > Cole > (c1698-bef 1774). (5th great-grandparents) > > Thomas Mattingly I (c1623-1664 MD) was the immigrant from England. > Benedict > Joseph Spalding was the grand-son of Thomas Spalding (c1640-c1713 MD) , > immigrant from England. Both in St. Mary's County MD area. > > Benedict J. Spalding JR and Alethaire had a son, Benedict J. III, > nicknamed > "Ben Slick". Born Jun 1783-died Feb 1870 in Marion County KY. He married > three times: Mary "Nancy" Hamilton; Elizabeth Elder; and Eliza McElroy. I > have no children listed. > > There are many descendants of this couple, Benedict Joseph Spalding JR and > Alethaire Abell, in KY, including: Hamilton, Simms, Abell, Lancaster, > Wathen, Beaven, on and on. Much has been documented, but data from records > and personal family trees does get tangled sometimes. And, the additional > name "Joseph" is not always adopted, or recorded consistently, through the > lines of descent. > > Hope this helps. > From: a Mattingly/Mudd/Simms/Spalding/Lancaster et al descendant > > -----Original Message----- > From: mdstmary-bounces@rootsweb.com [mailto:mdstmary-bounces@rootsweb.com] > On Behalf Of mdstmary-request@rootsweb.com > Sent: Tuesday, February 12, 2013 2:00 AM > To: mdstmary@rootsweb.com > Subject: MDSTMARY Digest, Vol 8, Issue 58 > > > > Today's Topics: > > 1. Re: Benedict Spalding (Dave Lee) > > > ---------------------------------------------------------------------- > > Message: 1 > Date: Mon, 11 Feb 2013 21:09:17 -0600 > From: "Dave Lee" <davidhilary@suddenlink.net> > Subject: Re: [MDSTMARY] Benedict Spalding > To: <mdstmary@rootsweb.com> > Message-ID: <66411EB0F2034F4BB69DE6D7251F03B9@user3e1dc38246> > Content-Type: text/plain; format=flowed; charset="iso-8859-1"; > reply-type=original > > I am afraid too many Benedict Spaldings are being mixed up. > In Maryland Records I find a Benedict Spalding b. 1798 d. 16 Feb 1832 SMC > m > 29 Sep 1819 Alethea Greenwell. I have not found him with middle name > Joseph? > A Benedict Joseph Spalding b. 1720- 1769 m. Elizabeth Mattingly 1746 SMC. > > Their son Benedict Spalding, Jr. b. Dec 1746, Calvert Co., MD d. 1 or 6 > Aug > 1815 Washington Co., KY m. Alethea(various spellings) Abell 1770.She was > b. > 22 Apr 1764 St. Andrews Parish, St. Marys Co., MD ( per Maryland Births & > Christenings 1662-1911) & d. 1 Dec 1821, Washington Co., KY d/o Richard > Abell & Ann. > > Above backed up by Find A Grave & by Family Data Collection.Sons of > American > Revolution Applications have varying dates. > > They had a son that shows as Benedict Joseph Spalding, III on some records > b. 10 Jun 1783, SMC d. 25 Feb 1870 Marion Co., KY but marriage index in > Washington Co., KY shows him as Benedict Spalding, Jr, in 3 marriage > records > Polly Hamilton, 16 Jan 1805, Eliza Elder 16 Jan 1815, & Eliza A. Beavin 7 > Nov 1832. > > I also found listed as a brother Joseph Spalding with 4 possible marriages > in Washington Co. Would they have named a son Joseph if they had Benedict > Joseph?? > > There was a Benedict A. Spalding in Washington Co. married in 1821. > Also Benedict J. Spalding in Union Co., KY m. in 1842. > > Dave > > > > > > > ----- Orid. 16 Feb 1832 ginal Message ----- > From: "C Greenwell" <cgreenwell01@gmail.com> > To: <mdstmary@rootsweb.com> > Sent: Monday, February 11, 2013 2:57 PM > Subject: Re: [MDSTMARY] Benedict Spalding > > >> Thanks. >> >> On Mon, Feb 11, 2013 at 3:55 PM, rubyslippers <rubyslippers@kc.rr.com> >> wrote: >>> Here is what I have, Randy. >>> >>> Benedict Spalding 6 Jan 1832 8th Feb 1832 >>> Wife's 1/3 >>> all to children unnamed >>> Executors: Wife Althea and FRIEND Joseph Spalding >>> T: Francis Abell, William Thomas, WZ Maddox >>> >>> then came Thomas Spalding and George H. Spalding - brothers of deceased >>> >>> >>> >>> On Feb 11, 2013, at 2:44 PM, C Greenwell <cgreenwell01@gmail.com> wrote: >>> >>>> Orphans Court Proceedings, SMC 1807-1852, folio 300 >>>> June Term 1832 >>>> Joseph Spalding, one of the Administrators for the Estate of Benedict >>>> Spalding, petitions the court to allow the Estate of Benedict Spalding >>>> to Administer the Estate of James Branson. >>>> >>>> I am not sure who this guy belongs to. Benedict Spalding did have a >>>> brother named Alexander Joseph Spalding but he usually used the name >>>> Alexander. In the will of Benedict Spalding (d. 1832) he names his >>>> wife as Exec. No mention of Joseph Splading. >>>> >>>> Randy >>>> >>>> On Mon, Feb 11, 2013 at 1:32 PM, rubyslippers <rubyslippers@kc.rr.com> >>>> wrote: >>>>> I went back and the date Althea and Joseph were doing the accounting >>>>> was 16th day of July 1832. >>>>> >>>>> I found the will proved 8th Feb 1832 of Benedict Spalding in SM. >>>>> >>>>> Thank you for the genealogy, Randy. >>>>> >>>>> >>>>> On Feb 11, 2013, at 12:04 PM, C Greenwell <cgreenwell01@gmail.com> >>>>> wrote: >>>>> >>>>>> I have Benedict Joseph Spalding (d. bef. 1832) son of Thomas Spalding >>>>>> (d. 1819) and Rebecca Yates (d. 1833) who married Aletha Greenwell on >>>>>> 29 Sep 1819, daughter of Thomas Greenwell (d. 1812) and Mary >>>>>> Simmons.. >>>>>> She was the Admin for her husbands's will. He wrote is will on 2 Jan >>>>>> 1831 and it was probated 4 Feb 1832. >>>>>> >>>>>> Randy >>>>>> >>>>>> On Mon, Feb 11, 2013 at 12:51 PM, rubyslippers >>>>>> <rubyslippers@kc.rr.com> wrote: >>>>>>> The final accounting by Aletha and James was dated April 23, 1831 >>>>>>> and > >>>>>>> referred to Benedict as deceased. Apparently it was a very popular >>>>>>> Spalding name. I found a record online assuming the one that was >>>>>>> married to Aletha died in Kentucky. Then again maybe it's two >>>>>>> different Alethas. >>>>>>> >>>>>>> On Feb 11, 2013, at 11:32 AM, pundt1@comcast.net wrote: >>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> Is this another Benedict Spalding? >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> "Marriages & Deaths from the Maryland Gazette. Surames: S & T., pg. >>>>>>>> 171 >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> Spalding Benedict, died Sat. 4th inst. at his residence in >>>>>>>> Leonardtown in his 35th year. leaving a widow and 3 children. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> (Long obit is given) 2/16/1832 >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> ----- Original Message ----- >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> From: "rubyslippers" <rubyslippers@kc.rr.com> >>>>>>>> To: mdstmary@rootsweb.com >>>>>>>> Sent: Monday, February 11, 2013 10:49:56 AM >>>>>>>> Subject: [MDSTMARY] Benedict Spalding >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> Starting in April 1830 Benedict Spalding acted as administrator of >>>>>>>> the estate of James Branson. He filed 2 accountings. Then by April >>>>>>>> 23, 1831 Benedict had died. James' estate was taken over by the >>>>>>>> Administrators of Benedict's - Aletha and James Spalding. >>>>>>>> >>>>>>>> Does anyone have any insight to the relationship between James and >>>>>>>> Benedict? 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