Wendy, I don't know that what I am about to relate will solve your problem with B. Friend but this interesting thing happened to me and may have a bearing on your situation. My ggrandfather served with the W. Va. Infantry. I found a website that listed men who served in the civil war in W.Va. "groups" (I can't think of the proper word) Anyway I found my G. Grandfather's name listed 3 times. I got in touch with the site and told them about what I had found. Their response was that they knew there were duplications of names but in order NOT to overlook any name they listed all names and left identifying the correct name up to individual researchers.Your ancestor may be listed more than once, just as mine was. Something to consider.... LoisZ