Dear List I have a ? if your wife or husband died and you marry you your sister in law or your brother in law. then what do your children from the first marriage call your new wife? Ant so an so or mom? John Gerdeman

John- The children probably already call the brother/sister-in-law, Aunt or Uncle and that is what they are so why call them anything different if that Aunt or Uncle married a widowed parent?

I think it would depend on the ages of the children and when the aunt/uncle or father/mother married. ruth