Has anyone on this list not ever made a mistake ?? I am appalled at all the negative feedback for Pat ! I saw it deleted it...what is the problem here? If you don't recognize a sender you can just hit delete. I for one hope that Pat will stay on the list...it is a great group. Those of those who were truly thrown by the Face book request.. could have just contacted the group for info. Let's move past this and get on with our research and friendships here. AND PAT AND ALL WHOSE CHILDREN ARE OFF TO COLLEGE...only because I have been in your position..TRUST me...when they come home for long breaks or summers....you'll be thrilled and then happy to see them go back.<grin> Once they are on their own..there is no going back to house rules very easily. Regards, Kathy in PA Kathy Dulin-Doedderlein Be an organ donor :)