No one is listed on Facebook without actively enrolling on it. By P's "friending" everyone, it doesn't accomplish anything other than listing them as a "friend" if they are already listed on facebook and have selected the option of allowing anyone to add them, which I doubt any adult would do. So everyone relax, go to facebook.com and enroll and select blocking if you are really concerned about it. Otherwise, trust that you will not be besieged by a lot of college students wanting to invite you to their next party! Sherry Gormley Crane mom of 3 college students! ************************************** See what's new at http://www.aol.com