Dear Donald, How wonderful to hear from you! There has been quite a discussion as to what to do with that stone on the Mendon List. Maybe you should sign up for that list and put your two-cents worth in there. I did forward your message to that group. And I'm copying this reply to them also so they will know you have been found! In response to your comments... I believe you, as the next of kin, should be involved in whatever happens to the stone -- and I believe there may be some cost in getting it reset in the cemetery. Do contact the author of the article to let her know that you are out there! Sue Susan M. Hillier Roe [email protected] Seal Beach, CA A friend is one who comes in when the whole world has gone out. Anonymous