In a message dated 2/19/02 6:11:41 PM, [email protected] writes: << Strange, but with my close family, I was so upset, I didn't take pictures. I never got funeral cards or anything relating to it. >> Jackie: I was with my Daddy, alone, when he died. I saw what he looked like in death. When we went to his funeral his casket was open before for viewing and closed during the service. I couldn't make myself go look at him, I was so torn up. Now I wish I had. Everyone said he looked great. We are all different and have a right to act differently in the same situations. Sandi