In a message dated 2/28/02 11:09:43 AM Eastern Standard Time, [email protected] writes: << Oh. I guess you should have said "the woman" instead of "the women" as this is the first time I have ever heard of someone believing this sort of thing. BTW: I cut my husband's hair and have done so for about 12 years now. Saves us some money, you bet! Pat >> I cut my husbands hair too, what there is of it:) It is a long story about my ex-daughter-in-law. I sure learned a lot. My idea of marriage was you worked as a unit to better the family, not just yourself. Hers was different, she said she was cashing in her retirement. Jackie