In a message dated 2/25/02 12:58:08 PM Eastern Standard Time, [email protected] writes: << I think that every young person should learn to be self-sufficient. That's the key: not supposing that females were created simply to be a servant to a male. Times are changing, as they should! And, it starts with the mothers; I taught my boys not to be helpless and not to think that they were superior to other people. Pat >> What gets me hot is the women who think that a man should come home from work and do ALL the cooking cleaning etc. and be nice about it. A lot of the women were part time workers or stay at home mothers. Jackie