In a message dated 2/28/02 7:47:53 PM, [email protected] writes: << My idea of marriage was you worked as a unit to better the family, not just yourself. Hers was different, she said she was cashing in her retirement. Jackie >> Jackie: Let's face it, she is a very selfish "it's all about me" person. Those people are all over the place, sad to say. Sandi