In a message dated 2/8/02 6:31:10 PM Eastern Standard Time, [email protected] writes: << And, like you, I had to 'prove' my research to her. Pat >> And I bet that felt GOOD! Jackie

> > << > And, like you, I had to 'prove' my research to her. > > Pat > >> > And I bet that felt GOOD! Jackie > It was tricky. I had to walk a fine line. After all, this is my mother-in-law and she is 'always right', especially with things that have to do with memory.....It didn't feel 'good'; I had mixed feelings because I had been sent searching in the wrong direction and that wasted my time and efforts. So, it felt more like, well, revenge! Kind of a "take that!" attitude (with some tact, but not much). Pat :D