In a message dated 2/18/02 9:19:43 AM, [email protected] writes: << My husband would not go on a tour with the rest of the family because he didn't like someone else setting the agenda for each day. If he couldn't be in control, then he just wouldn't go! >> Tours can be boring as not everyone wants to see the same things or spend the same length of time at any given place. Then, there are tours that are well worth it. Sandi