In a message dated 11/1/02 9:57:04 PM, SOLITAREJUNKIE@aol.com writes: << He has very bad heart & Kidneys not sure if he can hold up thru a surgery. Been going on now two weeks....Waiting on Doctors to decide. I only come home long enough to unwind a few minutes & change clothes .....Please say a prayer :) P S .......Found these Sites maybe they will help Lana >> Dear Lana: Oh dear! Our prayers are with you both! Please try to stay strong. I don't know what else to say. I know, when my husband was in the hospital last year I felt as if I was in a trance! I did pray and did not cry around my 4 children at the hospital. At night, though, our Chris would hold me and I cried like a baby. He is the only child who could handle that! Love, Cuz Sandi

Sandi. Strange how there is one child that can handle grief and ones that can't. Always thought my youngest to be very strong, but when talk of final arrangements he couldn't. This past winter, Mom was so bad they gave her only a 10% chance of making it through the night. She is still around. She has a bad heart Sugar, her kidneys had shut down, and very low blood pressure. and potassum poisioning. Later she had gall bladder surgery!Prayer works wonders!Jackie ----- Original Message ----- From: <SandKatC@aol.com> To: <MAUPIN-CHAT-L@rootsweb.com> Sent: Saturday, November 02, 2002 1:37 AM Subject: [MAUPIN-CHAT] Lana > > In a message dated 11/1/02 9:57:04 PM, SOLITAREJUNKIE@aol.com writes: > > << He has very bad heart & Kidneys not sure if he can hold up > thru a surgery. Been going on now two weeks....Waiting on Doctors to decide. > I only come home long enough to unwind a few minutes & change clothes > .....Please say a prayer :) P S .......Found these Sites maybe they will help > Lana >> > > Dear Lana: > > Oh dear! Our prayers are with you both! Please try to stay strong. I don't > know what else to say. I know, when my husband was in the hospital last year > I felt as if I was in a trance! I did pray and did not cry around my 4 > children at the hospital. At night, though, our Chris would hold me and I > cried like a baby. He is the only child who could handle that! > > Love, Cuz Sandi > > > ==== MAUPIN-CHAT Mailing List ==== > TO SUBSCRIBE OR UNSUBSCRIBE from any RootsWeb-hosted mailing list, send an e-mail message with only the word SUBSCRIBE (or UNSUBSCRIBE) in the subject and the body of the message to > [name of list]-L-request@rootsweb.com (for mail mode) or to > [name of list]-D-request@rootsweb.com (for digest mode). > > ============================== > To join Ancestry.com and access our 1.2 billion online genealogy records, go to: > http://www.ancestry.com/rd/redir.asp?targetid=571&sourceid=1237 > > >