In a message dated 12/25/02 4:31:49 PM, [email protected] writes: << Thanks, Sandi, for posting this. I will send a card of condolence to our cousin in Dufur. Even though I have never met her, just because she is a family member means that I share her grief at this difficult time. >> Ruth: Phyllis passed on. Bert, her husband, is the one to receive cards. Best, Sandi