You can access the social security records for free at ancestry.com I think it even will generate a letter for you to print and mail. You can get the address to write for a death certificate at <A HREF="http://vitalrec.com/okcounties6.html#LeFlore"> http://vitalrec.com/okcounties6.html</A> This site for will also give the price and may generate a letter for you as well. Also.....get on the rootsweb.com mailing list for the county she lived in and then send a letter to the list to see if anyone can lookup the obit for you. Good luck, Kathy