Yow! The danger of the printed word! I never intended the tone I have been chided for here. I'm very sorry if it was taken to be critical. It is just that there can be such factionalizing in a place like Deerfield where the past collides with the present. Where children of farmers battle with children of academics in the schoolyard. Anyone who is sharing the information that Cynthia is should be cannonized. I am extremely impressed with the altruistic members of this list, as well as many others, who follow trails that aren't directly related to their own families. Mea culpa.