Mornin' Cuzzies, Gonna get down to a little reality here today....pay attention. A psychologist fren of mine told me when you get into your late 50's, you should start down sizing because you are leaving. I thought he was nuts! But, I'll tell you now.....do it and keep everything cleared out you are not using. Reality is....you won't again. If the partner goes down w/ an illness, it's too late for that project because your time will be spent as a caregiver. Don't let thingees stack up that you'll do tomorrow.....tomorrow will turn out to be busier than today, and you'll have less energy. Wire everything as if you are leaving earth's plane tomorrow. Don't ignore that we are leaving because we all are. o : Also, be prepared to be screwed by the banks, the credit card companies, the credit bureaus, the court....and all those things you wrongly think are so solid. Ole Buckley, God bless him, was absolutely like living w/ a bull in a china closet....messiest human being that ever lived.....had his stuff strewn from one end of this place to the other....but, yet was the most meticulous, organized man underneath I've ever seen. It's amazing! And, yes, I've run into problems because of biz practices of the corporate world, but none I can't and won't soundly defeat. ( : It just takes more time and energy, and they will be w/out one less customer I'm sure.....for I have all of their back-ups solidly in place. Anyhoo, feel great, healthy as a horse? Tidy up your world anyway, and make sure your partner does the same. One never knows what the trip is gonna be. It'll save lots of aggravation at a time when the other one doesn't need it. And, no matter how well wired you are, there will be others who are not on the same page to mess w/ your general game plan. Y'all have a good one! ( : Buckette

Great advice cuz, we are doing that now Sent from my Verizon Wireless BlackBerry -----Original Message----- From: "spice3@juno.com" <spice3@juno.com> Sender: lovelace-bounces@rootsweb.com Date: Sat, 28 Aug 2010 14:42:36 To: <lovelace@rootsweb.com> Reply-To: lovelace@rootsweb.com Subject: Re: [LL] Sat Aug 28, 2010 Mornin' Cuzzies, Gonna get down to a little reality here today....pay attention. A psychologist fren of mine told me when you get into your late 50's, you should start down sizing because you are leaving. I thought he was nuts! But, I'll tell you now.....do it and keep everything cleared out you are not using. Reality is....you won't again. If the partner goes down w/ an illness, it's too late for that project because your time will be spent as a caregiver. Don't let thingees stack up that you'll do tomorrow.....tomorrow will turn out to be busier than today, and you'll have less energy. Wire everything as if you are leaving earth's plane tomorrow. Don't ignore that we are leaving because we all are. o : Also, be prepared to be screwed by the banks, the credit card companies, the credit bureaus, the court....and all those things you wrongly think are so solid. Ole Buckley, God bless him, was absolutely like living w/ a bull in a china closet....messiest human being that ever lived.....had his stuff strewn from one end of this place to the other....but, yet was the most meticulous, organized man underneath I've ever seen. It's amazing! And, yes, I've run into problems because of biz practices of the corporate world, but none I can't and won't soundly defeat. ( : It just takes more time and energy, and they will be w/out one less customer I'm sure.....for I have all of their back-ups solidly in place. Anyhoo, feel great, healthy as a horse? Tidy up your world anyway, and make sure your partner does the same. One never knows what the trip is gonna be. It'll save lots of aggravation at a time when the other one doesn't need it. And, no matter how well wired you are, there will be others who are not on the same page to mess w/ your general game plan. Y'all have a good one! ( : Buckette ------------------------------- To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to LOVELACE-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message

Buckette, My parents set up a living trust to keep things simple. When Pop passed three years ago, I settled his estate in about and hour and a half. He had property in two counties and a little of this and that all over the place. No probate, no contesting the will, no bank delays, no junk. It took longer to drive between the county seats than it took with the clerk of court. If only they had cleaned out some junk from the many sheds and basement!!!!!!!!! Still no where near clean. Larry In Harmony On 8/28/2010 10:42 AM, spice3@juno.com wrote: > Mornin' Cuzzies, > > Gonna get down to a little reality here today....pay attention. > > A psychologist fren of mine told me when you get into your late 50's, you > should start down sizing because you are leaving. I thought he was nuts! > But, I'll tell you now.....do it and keep everything cleared out you are not > using. Reality is....you won't again. If the partner goes down w/ an illness, > it's too late for that project because your time will be spent as a caregiver. > Don't let thingees stack up that you'll do tomorrow.....tomorrow will turn out > to be busier than today, and you'll have less energy. Wire everything as > if you are leaving earth's plane tomorrow. Don't ignore that we are leaving > because we all are. o : > > Also, be prepared to be screwed by the banks, the credit card companies, > the credit bureaus, the court....and all those things you wrongly think are so > solid. Ole Buckley, God bless him, was absolutely like living w/ a bull in a > china closet....messiest human being that ever lived.....had his stuff strewn from > one end of this place to the other....but, yet was the most meticulous, organized > man underneath I've ever seen. It's amazing! And, yes, I've run into problems > because of biz practices of the corporate world, but none I can't and won't soundly > defeat. ( : It just takes more time and energy, and they will be w/out one less > customer I'm sure.....for I have all of their back-ups solidly in place. > > Anyhoo, feel great, healthy as a horse? Tidy up your world anyway, and make > sure your partner does the same. One never knows what the trip is gonna be. It'll > save lots of aggravation at a time when the other one doesn't need it. And, no > matter how well wired you are, there will be others who are not on the same page to > mess w/ your general game plan. > > Y'all have a good one! ( : > > Buckette > > ------------------------------- > To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to LOVELACE-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message > > __________ NOD32 5401 (20100827) Information __________ > > This message was checked by NOD32 antivirus system. > http://www.eset.com > > >