Mornin' Cuzzies, When last we talked, I was suggesting pitfalls to avoid. Numerous ones of yousent such sweet notes of sympathy, and though I love it, I'm trying to explain toyou what might befall the uninformed....of which I was one.....because peoplethese days are so incompetent who still fill the remaining jobs. o : Ole Buckley and I had separate bank accts. in separate banks in different towns.At one point he sent me to the Veep of his bank so I could sign on to his accountwhich we took care of. However, when it came time for me to put my signatureinto operation, the bank said it wouldn't hold.....all of his accounts were frozen untilthe will went thru probate over two months later. Sooooo, don't take anyone's wordfor anything.....see it in writing. Say "show me the paper" everytime you turn around.When anyone in authority tells you something about your stuff, tell them you want tosee the paper that says that.....because the employee doesn't know what he's doing. That was just one of the probs......I had to borrow money to live on from Da Kid, andthank goodness he was flush. Make sure that each partner can get to the other one's stash.....and if you cannotbecause of distrust, etc., get a divorce.....it's easier than going thru this. In our casetwo aging independents married, and never let go of the independence......not smart. Great football over the week-end.....the real battles were in Houston among the highschools who struggle to represent Houston in the state playoffs. I had an ole beau whowas on the natl. championship Auburn team in the '50's so I was thrilled over that win! Have a good one! Buckette

Dear Susan and Cousins, Make sure of also getting a copy of the document - and KEEP it. Talila --- On Sun, 12/5/10, spice3@juno.com <spice3@juno.com> wrote: From: spice3@juno.com <spice3@juno.com> Subject: Re: [LL] Sun Dec 5, 2010 To: lovelace@rootsweb.com Date: Sunday, December 5, 2010, 4:17 PM Mornin' Cuzzies, When last we talked, I was suggesting pitfalls to avoid.  Numerous ones of yousent such sweet notes of sympathy, and though I love it, I'm trying to explain toyou what might befall the uninformed....of which I was one.....because peoplethese days are so incompetent who still fill the remaining jobs.   o : Ole Buckley and I had separate bank accts. in separate banks in different towns.At one point he sent me to the Veep of his bank so I could sign on to his accountwhich we took care of.   However, when it came time for me to put my signatureinto operation, the bank said it wouldn't hold.....all of his accounts were frozen untilthe will went thru probate over two months later.    Sooooo, don't take anyone's wordfor anything.....see it in writing.   Say "show me the paper" everytime you turn around.When anyone in authority tells you something about your stuff, tell them you want tosee the paper that says that.....because the employee doesn't know what he's doin! g. That was just one of the probs......I had to borrow money to live on from Da Kid, andthank goodness he was flush. Make sure that each partner can get to the other one's stash.....and if you cannotbecause of distrust, etc., get a divorce.....it's easier than going thru this.    In our casetwo aging independents married, and never let go of the independence......not smart. Great football over the week-end.....the real battles were in Houston among the highschools who struggle to represent Houston in the state playoffs.   I had an ole beau whowas on the natl. championship Auburn team in the '50's so I was thrilled over that win! Have a good one! Buckette ------------------------------- To unsubscribe from the list, please send an email to LOVELACE-request@rootsweb.com with the word 'unsubscribe' without the quotes in the subject and the body of the message