Dear Littleton Cousin, Thank you for sharing your frustrations that I feel also! Can you tell me why the ones who mark their files "Private" and won't share their information, are also on OUR LISTS THAT DO?? They TAKE but don't give! Wish we could vent to them all and let them know how we feel and why should we share with them and allow them to take? On the LDS Family Ancestry File, there is a statement we sign that promises we will share what we have and are willing to help others. I thought that's what this is all about. Thank you for letting me vent also! Charlotte Kendrick