Diana Gale Matthiesen wrote: > of the situation sooner. You can keep letting "normal" messages get through, > only blocking those throwing fuel on the fire. Trick there seems to be knowing in advance what someone will consider throwing fuel on fire. I once told someone that I thought she could do X better than I could, intending it as a compliment; she's still furious. Other'n that, it's a plan. (g) Cheryl