As to determine Miss or Mr.......when we add it in the temple, it's pretty straight-forward. Pink cards get Miss or Mrs and blue cards get Mr. :-) It seems to me that unless the card says Mrs. Jane Jones, that most of our names (and all temple work) are done in the maiden name as for unmarried females, so we could conclude that using Miss is acceptable. When our matron was discussing it and someone asked about using the inclusive Ms....she replied...oh we would NEVER use that. I chuckled a little. I think that these cultural differences, the way we sometimes unintentionally fracture the pronunciations of names and any other errors of a human nature are immaterial. These folks know who they are and the big computer in the sky gives them credit for having their ordinance work done. And that's what it is all about anyway. We'll do our best down here with the (sometimes lousy) records they left us :-) Michele In a message dated 6/10/2009 6:38:46 A.M. Pacific Daylight Time, nascott@cinci.rr.com writes: Another thought I just had on this is if one does it this way then how do you distinguish between, Mrs., Mr., and Miss? Does the software know by the dates of death? **************Dell Inspiron 15 Laptop: Now in 6 vibrant colors! Shop Dell’s full line of laptops. (http://pr.atwola.com/promoclk/100126575x1222008777x1201444407/aol?redir=http:%2F%2Fad.doubleclick.net%2Fclk%3B215566094%3B3786435 8%3Bv)