keep trying to research both families. In time they might really see the senselessness in thinking this way. They are all family, just a bit different family. Boodline is something different altogether. Not everyone feels this way. I have received much information from spouces who are not really bloodline, but are helpful anyway. Anne **************Planning your summer road trip? Check out AOL Travel Guides. (http://travel.aol.com/travel-guide/united-states?ncid=aoltrv00030000000016)