Julia: Checked out your Lair as requested, & found only a patch of green grass that my Lairs also offered up to me. Your rellie does have a nice neighbour, with a large celtic cross, if that is any consolation. One is lucky if an old grave even offers up an ancient weather beaten stone! My local grave attendant comes along with a pitch fork & stabs the area lest there is stone overgrown with grass. I found my film at the Mitchell unreadable, even the fellow who copies such information did not want to waste my money on such poor quality. Guess we can't win them all. By the way, why do Jewish People leave stones/ pebbles on their relative's graves? Do any of the Listers know? Ruth